What does being stuck really feel like to the average person? Is it being on a job that has become repetitive and uninspiring, lacking challenge and unrewarding to say the least. Or is it similar to being in a relationship that has a lack of love, commitment and trust. On the other-hand, maybe it’s like being a part of a church that lacks growth, vision and unity amongst the members. Possibly being stuck just feels like a meaningless existence in a world where you are overlooked, unappreciated and simply not knowing where you belong.
Have you ever watched a balloon float away into the sky above? That balloon has no idea where its final destination will be. All we know is, either it will “pop” or “deflate” and come to a resting place in some strange location. For many of us, this balloon is a representation of our life’s unfolding journey. At some point we must grab hold of the “string” that controls the balloon (our individual life). Taking control of our life before it gets away is a key step to becoming unstuck. This is evident in 2 Timothy 1:7 which validates the inner strength we already possess. And this can and will lift us beyond our present circumstances. So, once you identify which aspect of your life you want to address first then it must be determined what is it that needs to be changed for the better.
There is no magical or perfect solution or path to rescue us from being or feeling stuck. The inner and outer struggle is an indication we want a break-thru. First, we need to be still and trust ourselves enough to have a willingness to change our mindset as well determine how we will hold the “string” controlling our life. For example, if our goal is to improve a particular relationship then our role has to be defined. Looking at one’s self first means understanding what positives have I brought into this relationship and what areas do I need to improve upon.
Finally, after doing all that is possible do a review and ask yourself the following questions:
- What did I learn from being stuck?
- Do I want a real change?
- Who or what can help me?
There is no set time to becoming unstuck but it will take a persistent effort to be loosed and freed from the existing situation. So, those in jobs, relationships, churches or just living life that are feeling entrenched or stagnant should remain steadfast and inspired because even the turtle reaches its destination in the allotted time. Right now it’s time to begin with some positive affirmations to initiate the process. This means we should first “speak” that which we hope to accomplish into existence (Isaiah 55:11). We can exercise power through our words. Be mindful, that this is not a “speaking” of self-centered miracles but a declaration of faith. Next we must “believe” on that which has been spoken. Our belief system gives shape to our life and then we are able to see the growth spring forth. And ultimately there should be action taken to carry out the inner beliefs. Simple steps to becoming “Unstuck”: Speak it, Believe it and Act on it.
I agree, your statements are very true and inspiring. Being stuck is living a life where you are fulfilling someone else’s dreams, desires, needs, etc. You are basically conforming to someone else’s existence. What about you? Your purpose?
In relationships, we change, where we are unidentifiable and accept appalling behaviors in order to get someone to stay with us or to say we are in a relationship. On jobs, we tend to follow the in-crowd to be accepted, as well as other things. In church, we tend to forget the real reason we are going and instead bring worldly ways into a Holy setting. Within our life, we get complacent instead of renewing our minds daily.
If we remain with those ways, we will continue to be stuck. To be unstuck, we must free ourselves from the sins of this world. Remain steadfast in goodness by reading our bibles, surrounding ourselves with others that are determined to grow higher and are like minded (Proverbs 27:17 says, iron sharpens iron). If we keep doing the same thing we did yesterday, we will continue to get the same results – stuck in the same place. We also need to be who we expect others to be. What better example is there? In Mark 16:15, He said to go in all the world and preach the gospel to every creature. Being stuck in one place will make fulfilling this commandment impossible.
We were equipped with a world full of knowledge, wealth, and opportunity. We cannot obtain any of these things if we remain stuck in yesterday.
Wow! What awesome words of encouragement I will use for myself. I’ve been feeling stuck for about a year or so and it seemed like I was never going to come up out of it. I’m not completely there yet but I’m praying for complete restoration and deliverance. What I learned from being stuck is that the only person that can get you unstuck is JESUS. You look to family and friends but if God doesn’t do it, it can be done. Change is painful but OH so necessary. Bottom line…Jesus is our only help. I used to look for the church to help me when I was going thru. Sad to say that church just isn’t the same anymore. I shouldn’t say the church but the people in the church has tarnished the meaning behind going to church and displaying true holiness. I’m not saying I’m where I want to be in Christ but I’d expect the more seasoned saints to be that example of Christ the world needs to see. Thanks Dre for this, this is awesome. I can’t wait to read more of what the Lord gives to you. Blessings 🙂
Yes, our expectation(s) within the church can shift due to the actions of others who are supposed to be exemplifying holiness. We have to indeed stay focused on Jesus and be willing to encourage one another despite our human flaws. Thanks for the support.
This is very true and inspiring!
Thanks.